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Is persuasion really important? does it really help you change people's lives or perhaps even you life? Perhaps we need to be aware of these tactics so that will know when someone is using them on us. But other than the media, who else uses it? isn't it funny that companies spend millions of dollars to influence our decisions everyday and most of them succeed but we can't even spend a fealting moment to influence our own decisions? how much power would we have over our lives if we knew how to control the forces that were affecting our thoughts and daily decision.

Does persuasion really help to change the world? how does learning persuasive skills help you to change your life and change the lives of others ?

Have you ever wanted to do something but just could not get down to doing it? have you ever had a friend or a loved one who has a really bad habit which is bad for them and indirectly bad for you, don't you wish that you'd have the power to help them change for the better? Many have felt helpless, yes the law of attraction exists, but how does that help you to quit smoking if you need it desperately everyday ? yes you can get motivated, pumped up with great feelings, but what happens when those feelings die down ? what are the odds now that you will go back to that bad habit? these are just problems with persuasion we face everyday.

then there are more problems when we live out our lives, wat are the odds that you would could get a discount at a second hand store if you had just asked the owner the right way? there is the ever popular seduction game. have you wished that you had the persuasive power to firstly get urself to talk to a girl and secondly persuade her to get give her your number? or would you rather just try asking her and face the ever hate "no sorry".

Persuasion skills, inner and outer, not only help you to change yourself in the begining, but enable you to change the world. !!

"Its not about being liked, its about being effective" - joel bauer

People hate making mistakes, its always a sign of failure for some people. others believe that its not thier lucky day today, while other people would ask the question, why is god so cruel to me. but there is a special group of people who love making mistakes, they plan to make mistakes and love to fall down and get back up again. Not all rich people do this incase if you were wondering.

The people who do this are people who love what they do. they are extermly passionate and love every minute of it.

But how do we change our mindest and forget about our past and learn to see mistakes as a gift ?

Ross Jeffries wrote this passage

"I made mistakes as part of my learning. I HAD to make those mistakes to see where
I can move to next. There is no way I could NOT have made them.  Those mistakes are
 the foundation of new power just as soon as I forgive and release them.

Since more mistakes will always be unavoidable, I will embrace them MORE quickly,
forgive MORE easily, so I can most and more quickly move into POWER.
Forgiving others, and letting them go is good training for forgiving myself.
So even if they don't "deserve" it I will do it for my own sake. I will either
get what I want or learn what I need to.  Mistakes are just MARKERS; marking out
 where I can step into new freedom, choice, power and growth. I may wish I had been
born more evolved or perfect, but THIS is my path and I embrace it. I may not always
 like it, I may slip and grumble, BUT THIS IS MY PATH. I will let my learnings pull
me forward. I will never stop learning til I draw my last breath and in that last
 breath I will  learn what THAT is like as I embrace the Source of All Learning..
right now, today."

Just mediate and say that to yourself, you might not want to beleive it, but changing
yourself first, just might cause a ripple effect that could play an important role in
changing the world...

What would you outsource? when Should you outsource? and why? It turns out that the real question isn't why should we outsource but can we. do you want to take the risk of paying someone you don't know to do something valueable for you ?

Wouldn't you rather do it yourself if you know how to ? If you know how to design a brochure using photoshop, would you give it to someone else and risk have a bad design just cause you did not have the time to see the project thru? I wouldn't. I wouldn't pay someone to do a mediocre project just because i did not have time. I would however outsource it if i did not know how to do it or if the person i outsourced it to was much much much better than i am.

So is outsourcing really bad? or really good? i guess that depends on how lazy you are and how dumb you are on finishing that project. but if you have time i'd rather you do it. Not only would you learn a great deal, you would have done something using your own 2 hands, isn't that where the fun lies?

Seth godin talks about ideas that spread, win. What idea could you come up with that could change the world. What idea could you come up with that would be worth spreading ?

Everyday i'll come up with one day idea.

Daily without failure, i see school children from different schools, carrying tin boxs asking for donations. does that really teach a child about helping the community ? or helping the needy ? What difference would it make if the child was asked to use that same time to actually help someone. just help one person. buy that person lunch, or buy a new pair of clothes for someone who can't afford it. if everyone of those kids who are forced to stand and beg passerbys for a 10cent donation could instead interact with the needy and actually help them what change would we see in the world ?

This is one idea that we could spread.....

Noor

it is impossible to estimate the tremendous injury to the individual and the loss to society ressulting from misplaced men and woman, the round pegs in square holes, the millions of peroaple who are unhappy and unproductive because they are doin work which they dislike, or for which they are not adapted.

I alwayz feel sory for the man who has missed his calling, who is conscious that he is a misfir. a round peg in a square hole, and who never can measure up to his highest possiblities because he has postponed making a change until too late.

Orison Swett Marden